With everything that goes by in life especially during the bad- have you ever stopped to think..it could've been worse?
Well, sometimes it could probably be the worse thing ever, that could have happened...and yes there is probably no getting out of it or answers for it. But at that point of time- take a look around u.. talk to the people around you.. indulge urself in the things around you, take on some more responsibility..get a job, get a distraction, basically look aound you for that probable way out...I'm pretty sure there some version of that- and then be grateful for it.
You know there are actually many many things at play here-
You could be stop and think about the people who think of you- yes just "think", coz at the end of the day - your not asking them to think of ya, or paying them to do that! And yea that counts- if your "demanding" more- go suck it. Coz that's probably being greedy or selfish or something like that! Btw "demanding" consists of : expecting them to care.. expecting them to be interested in you..expecting them to like you...so on and so forth. But think about it- these are the people who actually without a reason are simply...just...thinking about you... now how awesome is that??
So, that is what I call getting wat you want, being realistic in life- not "demanding" :)
Its a nice feeling- coz at the end of the day its those small things that matter- people simply thinking abt you..being able to afford that flower vase u always wanted, being "somewhere" in your life!! Having somebody to think about..having options in life for...watever!!Yes...the little things.
Coz there comes a day when your probably just sitting by yourself, looking around you and wondering..just plain and simple wondering - your not cranky- your not grumbling or whining or being critical or angry, just wondering about probably inane things- you need to stop yourself and congratulate yourself coz "finally" yes finally you have found peace, peace of mind...! And yes, that's honestly a really good time to weigh your priorities in life and really focus on it.. coz once you start to enjoy the peace you really cant afford to loose it!!
So yes- that's when u actually realize all that you have is, almost all that you wanted!! Most of us always do get what we want, but then again, we are so busy whining and grumbling about every single thing that we generally, more than required, loose sight of everything good happening/happened.....
Trust me, there will come a day when you actually do get what you want..there will come a time when you simply just smile...smile, not becoz your in love..or seen/heard something funny..or feel something nice.. but smile, simply because your finally at peace....! You finally, for absolutely no reason, have it - have everything - you have the people who love u..people who "think" of you for no reason..you have the small things in your life that make it whole.. no hassles or chaos, people who understand you care for you...list goes on and on....
Find your list and relish everything thats been crossed of it...
