Thursday, February 24, 2011

back stabbers

Whenever people talk about themselves, invariably one of the things that they talk about is how much they hate backstabbers, and how they truly despise them, blah blah blah..

But the fact remains - don't we all hate them? In fact, its quiet surprising, think about this: if we ALL hate these back-stabbers, truly despise them, etc etc.. then who are these backstabber here?

Scarily makes you wonder if there is a little bit of a back-stabber in all of us here...

A friend of mine very surprisingly (surprisingly because that statement came out of the blue to me..)once told me that : in life, it is these people who make you more cautious, more careful about yourself, for yourself..

Well the way he said it, was well frankly sounded way more sensible, than the way I just put it.

I guess, to some of us, this may seem like a negative statement, but honestly, this is just something urging us to reach out for ourselves..instead of being dependent on the world or other people. Instead of blaming our woes on the rest of the world. It urges us to take responsibility, for wat we say, or do, or how we interact... be responsible.

Coz at the end of the day- we alone are responsible for everything that happens. We alone control everything that happens. The universe is a series of permutations and combination. Every step we take sends out a ripple effect bringing out, again, a series of actions and reactions...

So its not Karma, not God, most importantly not other people...only YOU control everything that happens..

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

exasperation


people scheming
people always wanting to be ahead
people always struggling to get ahead
people wanting everything
people wanting everything when they demand for it
people demanding
people demanding all the time
people not getting wat you want
peole crying for love
people crying for money
people crying for work
people crying over books
people taking advantage of other people
people lying
people backstabbing
people being lazy
people being angry all the time
people being sad all the time
people procastinating
people faking it
people being dumb
people screwing other people
people fighting over politics
people not getting anythign from fighting over politics
people loosing 
people loosing people
people loosing lives
people not being able to survive/fight
people avoiding you
people sucking at work
people expecting so much from you
people loosing their temper 



Monday, February 14, 2011

being shallow is wrong

There are people who say - the outcome is highly circumstantial of what you do where and when .. Well I am totally in agreement to it. But similarly the who also drastically does affect the outcomes..


Consider this-
take any question and imagine that any person is asking that question to u. Preferably imagine the different people from varying categories in life are asking that to you..Say a pretty person, an old person, an funny looking person, irritating person, person u like, priest/nun.. let the list go on...

The way you answer will more often than REQUIRED will vary...

So all those people who say its wrong.. they are basically kidding themselves.. probably because they themselves do not realize, how they are reacting themselves.. some may actually get offended reading that.. but yea.. its the truth

Looks/persona/personality.... whatever u wanna call it. they all matter....