Whenever people talk about themselves, invariably one of the things that they talk about is how much they hate backstabbers, and how they truly despise them, blah blah blah..
But the fact remains - don't we all hate them? In fact, its quiet surprising, think about this: if we ALL hate these back-stabbers, truly despise them, etc etc.. then who are these backstabber here?
Scarily makes you wonder if there is a little bit of a back-stabber in all of us here...
A friend of mine very surprisingly (surprisingly because that statement came out of the blue to me..)once told me that : in life, it is these people who make you more cautious, more careful about yourself, for yourself..
Well the way he said it, was well frankly sounded way more sensible, than the way I just put it.
I guess, to some of us, this may seem like a negative statement, but honestly, this is just something urging us to reach out for ourselves..instead of being dependent on the world or other people. Instead of blaming our woes on the rest of the world. It urges us to take responsibility, for wat we say, or do, or how we interact... be responsible.
Coz at the end of the day- we alone are responsible for everything that happens. We alone control everything that happens. The universe is a series of permutations and combination. Every step we take sends out a ripple effect bringing out, again, a series of actions and reactions...
So its not Karma, not God, most importantly not other people...only YOU control everything that happens..
But the fact remains - don't we all hate them? In fact, its quiet surprising, think about this: if we ALL hate these back-stabbers, truly despise them, etc etc.. then who are these backstabber here?
Scarily makes you wonder if there is a little bit of a back-stabber in all of us here...
A friend of mine very surprisingly (surprisingly because that statement came out of the blue to me..)once told me that : in life, it is these people who make you more cautious, more careful about yourself, for yourself..
Well the way he said it, was well frankly sounded way more sensible, than the way I just put it.
I guess, to some of us, this may seem like a negative statement, but honestly, this is just something urging us to reach out for ourselves..instead of being dependent on the world or other people. Instead of blaming our woes on the rest of the world. It urges us to take responsibility, for wat we say, or do, or how we interact... be responsible.
Coz at the end of the day- we alone are responsible for everything that happens. We alone control everything that happens. The universe is a series of permutations and combination. Every step we take sends out a ripple effect bringing out, again, a series of actions and reactions...
So its not Karma, not God, most importantly not other people...only YOU control everything that happens..
Well, I feel Back Stabbing is circumstantial, Depends who did it to you, esp under which circumstances n intentions...but i belive its not KARMA...May be this is what they call 'YIN-YAN', a little bit of good in bad n a litle bit of bad in good!
ReplyDeleteBut as a rational empricist myself i think, everything in this world happens to make us evolve, into a better human being! so u are right, back stabbing just tells us how the others would feel when we do it to them!! n when we sort out the hurt caused, we become a better person..:)
Karma n GOD are only for the people who belive in eternity..:)