shit happens...

There should be a really special type of heavenly "hell" for ppl who say - "Shit happens" or "life gives you wat u deserve" or "karma has its way" and some other pot load of more shit!

I mean wat gives??? whats gives you the right to judge and shrug and say " shit happens" and worse- when will u stop saying that over and over again?? And how about coming up with some thing more original... u know, something like... this is fucking shit!! Why don't you drown this shit in some booze or some other detrimental course of action?

I am one those people who is persistently be on the hunt for the answer to the question "why?" no matter what, where, when or how- there is always the underlining question "why?" which very frankly is the only thing that makes sense. If u can have the answer to that question, everything else is just easier. try it..
So, the next time you loose your temper, because things didn't go a certain way, ask yourself the question, "why" - why does it "bother you" so much that it didnt go a certain way, making your loose your temper like that?

So here's the hassle- when there is no actual answer to the question "why"- other than - shit happens and thats all your left with..you gotta wonder, for how long will this happen? where exactly would you draw the line?
I mean at the end of it all...how many things can wrong?? I know, there is no limit but, really there is or rather there has to be a limit to how much!!
how many times will u sit back and accept - shit happens?
Accepted - life can be a real bitch sometimes, but for how long will you be able to sit back and take it? For how long are you going to try to be ok with it? and worst of all- what happens when u snap?
Seriously, whether things went to hell for you once or more than once- what would happen when u snap?

Does one ever then, get an answer of "why did it happen?" Coz, you are honestly fucking kidding yourself when you accepting "shit happens" and trying to move on. As a matter of fact, u never really move-on unless some basic questions are answered or the equations are balanced. frankly the people "moving-on" are really running away rather than dealing with it! its called Karma with a capital B for bitch!

Another baffling thing- when ur fucked, and u wonder things couldnt get worse this than this for you... it actually does find a way to get worse!!...ironically beautiful isnt? And then the chaos just never stops!

So, when is it too much?? and what happens when it cross that "too much" barrier? could it really actually be that your the most screwed up person ever? or really that unlucky?? think abt it..it is insane..

back stabbers

Whenever people talk about themselves, invariably one of the things that they talk about is how much they hate backstabbers, and how they truly despise them, blah blah blah..

But the fact remains - don't we all hate them? In fact, its quiet surprising, think about this: if we ALL hate these back-stabbers, truly despise them, etc etc.. then who are these backstabber here?

Scarily makes you wonder if there is a little bit of a back-stabber in all of us here...

A friend of mine very surprisingly (surprisingly because that statement came out of the blue to me..)once told me that : in life, it is these people who make you more cautious, more careful about yourself, for yourself..

Well the way he said it, was well frankly sounded way more sensible, than the way I just put it.

I guess, to some of us, this may seem like a negative statement, but honestly, this is just something urging us to reach out for ourselves..instead of being dependent on the world or other people. Instead of blaming our woes on the rest of the world. It urges us to take responsibility, for wat we say, or do, or how we interact... be responsible.

Coz at the end of the day- we alone are responsible for everything that happens. We alone control everything that happens. The universe is a series of permutations and combination. Every step we take sends out a ripple effect bringing out, again, a series of actions and reactions...

So its not Karma, not God, most importantly not other people...only YOU control everything that happens..

exasperation

people scheming

people always wanting to be ahead

people always struggling to get ahead

people wanting everything

people wanting everything when they demand for it

people demanding

people demanding all the time

people not getting wat you want

peole crying for love

people crying for money

people crying for work

people crying over books

people taking advantage of other people

people lying

people backstabbing

people being lazy

people being angry all the time

people being sad all the time

people procastinating

people faking it

people being dumb

people screwing other people

people fighting over politics

people not getting anythign from fighting over politics

people loosing 

people loosing people

people loosing lives

people not being able to survive/fight

people avoiding you

people sucking at work

people expecting so much from you

people loosing their temper 

being shallow is wrong

There are people who say - the outcome is highly circumstantial of what you do where and when .. Well I am totally in agreement to it. But similarly the who also drastically does affect the outcomes..


Consider this-
take any question and imagine that any person is asking that question to u. Preferably imagine the different people from varying categories in life are asking that to you..Say a pretty person, an old person, an funny looking person, irritating person, person u like, priest/nun.. let the list go on...

The way you answer will more often than REQUIRED will vary...

So all those people who say its wrong.. they are basically kidding themselves.. probably because they themselves do not realize, how they are reacting themselves.. some may actually get offended reading that.. but yea.. its the truth

Looks/persona/personality.... whatever u wanna call it. they all matter....

A blessed ray of sunshine

With everything that goes by in life especially during the bad- have you ever stopped to think..it could've been worse?
Well, sometimes it could probably be the worse thing ever, that could have happened...and yes there is probably no getting out of it or answers for it. But at that point of time- take a look around u.. talk to the people around you.. indulge urself in the things around you, take on some more responsibility..get a job, get a distraction, basically look aound you for that probable way out...I'm pretty sure there some version of that- and then be grateful for it.

You know there are actually many many things at play here-
You could be stop and think about the people who think of you- yes just "think", coz at the end of the day - your not asking them to think of ya, or paying them to do that! And yea that counts- if your "demanding" more- go suck it. Coz that's probably being greedy or selfish or something like that! Btw "demanding" consists of : expecting them to care.. expecting them to be interested in you..expecting them to like you...so on and so forth. But think about it- these are the people who actually without a reason are simply...just...thinking about you... now how awesome is that??
So, that is what I call getting wat you want, being realistic in life- not "demanding" :)
 Its a nice feeling- coz at the end of the day its those small things that matter- people simply thinking abt you..being able to afford that flower vase u always wanted, being "somewhere" in your life!! Having somebody to think about..having options in life for...watever!!Yes...the little things.

Coz there comes a day when your probably just sitting by yourself, looking around you and wondering..just plain and simple wondering - your not cranky- your not grumbling or whining or being critical or angry, just wondering about probably inane things- you need to stop yourself and congratulate yourself coz "finally" yes finally you have found peace, peace of mind...! And yes, that's honestly a really good time to weigh your priorities in life and really focus on it.. coz once you start to enjoy the peace you really cant afford to loose it!!
So yes- that's when u actually realize all that you have is, almost all that you wanted!! Most of us always do get what we want, but then again, we are so busy whining and grumbling about every single thing that we generally, more than required, loose sight of everything good happening/happened.....

Trust me, there will come a day when you actually do get what you want..there will come a time when you simply just smile...smile, not becoz your in love..or seen/heard something  funny..or feel something nice.. but smile, simply because your finally at peace....! You finally, for absolutely no reason, have it - have everything - you have the people who love u..people who "think" of you for no reason..you have the small things in your life that make it whole.. no hassles or chaos, people who understand you care for you...list goes on and on....

Find your list and relish everything thats been crossed of it...