There should be a really special type of heavenly "hell" for ppl who say - "Shit happens" or "life gives you wat u deserve" or "karma has its way" and some other pot load of more shit!
I mean wat gives??? whats gives you the right to judge and shrug and say " shit happens" and worse- when will u stop saying that over and over again?? And how about coming up with some thing more original... u know, something like... this is fucking shit!! Why don't you drown this shit in some booze or some other detrimental course of action?
I am one those people who is persistently be on the hunt for the answer to the question "why?" no matter what, where, when or how- there is always the underlining question "why?" which very frankly is the only thing that makes sense. If u can have the answer to that question, everything else is just easier. try it..
So, the next time you loose your temper, because things didn't go a certain way, ask yourself the question, "why" - why does it "bother you" so much that it didnt go a certain way, making your loose your temper like that?
So here's the hassle- when there is no actual answer to the question "why"- other than - shit happens and thats all your left with..you gotta wonder, for how long will this happen? where exactly would you draw the line?
I mean at the end of it all...how many things can wrong?? I know, there is no limit but, really there is or rather there has to be a limit to how much!!
how many times will u sit back and accept - shit happens?
Accepted - life can be a real bitch sometimes, but for how long will you be able to sit back and take it? For how long are you going to try to be ok with it? and worst of all- what happens when u snap?
Seriously, whether things went to hell for you once or more than once- what would happen when u snap?
Does one ever then, get an answer of "why did it happen?" Coz, you are honestly fucking kidding yourself when you accepting "shit happens" and trying to move on. As a matter of fact, u never really move-on unless some basic questions are answered or the equations are balanced. frankly the people "moving-on" are really running away rather than dealing with it! its called Karma with a capital B for bitch!
Another baffling thing- when ur fucked, and u wonder things couldnt get worse this than this for you... it actually does find a way to get worse!!...ironically beautiful isnt? And then the chaos just never stops!
So, when is it too much?? and what happens when it cross that "too much" barrier? could it really actually be that your the most screwed up person ever? or really that unlucky?? think abt it..it is insane..
I personally think, we never 'MOVE ON', IT (whatever the shit is) never gets easy..Just that we become better at it....n towards the end we make a peace with whatever the way it is...acceptance is followed by peace..:)
ReplyDeleteironically this article coincides when Delhi Belly was released. Black humor which not many 'get'... and critics suggesting it catered to a section of the populace that is cool when "shit happens". Try that or else think beyond- Like the lesser known 13th century poet Rumi said - Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing, there is a field….main wahan milonga tujhe. When the soul lies down in that grass, the world is too full to talk about… Ideas, language, even "each other" doesn't make any sense. And the other Rumi I know keeps repeating You are not your job, you're not how much money you have in the bank. You are not the car you drive. You are not your fucking khakis. You are all singing, all dancing crap of the world - welcome to the Fight Club. Keep Fighting It !
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